4) Collared at Tammany Hall. I took awhile to think about what I wanted to do beforehand
This was a very fun night and a ton of my old friends came out for the show. I absolutely adore my friend Rob DeBellis and Id play as Stephanie Anders pet anytime. I have to discuss protocol beforehand though if I’m going to allow myself to be vulnerable at this level, which conflicts with spontaneity. A collar is at the top of the list fetish wise for me I don’t wear something like this for fashion or let just anyone put one on me. Its an energetic sexual transfer of control and to not get to heavy handed about the whole experience is pretty much impossible so I don’t know if I would do this publicly again.
I was stuck for a fairly long time wearing this collar afterwards chatting with friends about whatever. I couldn’t concentrate and I was dreading the sensation of having to take it off by myself.
- A collar should only be removed by the Dominant at the end of the journey.